Dear X #1

Dear X was something I ran across many years ago. In the intervening years, it has since disappeared from the net. I found another version of it, but it wasn’t quite the same. The original idea was to get all your feelings out on your own blog, not send them to a communal blog. But, for those of you to whom that appeals, cool. Me, I miss the old version of it. You wrote everything you felt and needed to say out to someone, but left off the names, leaving only – X.

I’m putting it after the bump for a couple of reasons.

  1. It’s long.
  2. Maybe you just don’t give a fuck – which is fine. It’s deeply personal and emotional. I know some people just don’t care to read that stuff.
  3. It oddly reminds me of the stuff I used to write in college. It’s nearly in verse. Oy.


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Dear X ~

I wish you knew the effect you truly had on my life.
I wish you knew the scars you left upon my heart and my soul.
I wish I’d had the courage to tell you.
I wish I’d been angrier sooner so I could have told you.

I wish things had been different.
I wish you had been the person I thought you were.
I wish you would read this and know that you truly did not deserve me at all.
I wish I actually believed that.

I wish you knew how much rage I still hold.
I wish you knew how much bitterness and hate hide in my soul.
I wish you could see how you’ve completely dampened my spirit.
I wish you could see beyond the mask I show to the world to the darkness within.

Was it really worth it?
Was the instant gratification worth the destruction you wrought?
Was she worth it, I wonder?
Was she good for you, that girl a mere ten days later?

I don’t wish you death.
I don’t wish you harm.
I don’t wish you the pain you’ve caused me.
I don’t wish you the uncertainty of self you’ve given to me.

I only wish you could see the truth.
I only wish you had had the strength I had.
I only wish you would have had the courage to speak.
I only wish you had been the someone you pretended to be.

In the end, I wish only one thing…
That I could truly say –
You have no power over me…

~ Me

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10 Responses to Dear X #1

  1. yoshi says:

    Wow pretty deep stuff. I think I can relate.

  2. Pandora says:

    It’s been weighing on my soul a long time. Mostly because I never asked the questions I should have asked. And now – it’s a bit too late. Ah well.

  3. yoshi says:

    sometimes it’s just good to say it. It helped me a lot.

  4. Pandora says:

    There were others things I haven’t said yet. ::smirks:: Perhaps for Dear X #2. (; That one might need a parental advisory.

  5. yoshi says:

    Sweet, i’m always up for anything that says “explicit” raspberry

  6. Eliza says:

    I echo Yoshi’s sentiments with this one. Wow.

    Its the sort of thing I’d love to send to X.

  7. Pandora says:

    @Yoshi – just wait then. *snickers*

    @Eliza – Some things really do need to be written down, I think. I felt better. (; It took a couple hours AND the Thursday Thirteen – but I felt better!

  8. Congratulations…I probably would have stuck out my tongue and sulked.

  9. CJ says:

    I used to do Dear X too! We should start it up again. I miss it.

  10. Pandora says:

    @Rick – I did sulk. For a long time.

    @CJ – I am going to start it up. (; Just you wait and see. *muahahahhahaha*

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