One Partner

So – someone has asked, why only one partner in my 27 years of life?
(This is from the “Spit or Swallow” post over at the group blog. Read the comments. You’ll find it.)

Anyway. I was a geeky kid in high school, I suppose. I’m not exactly the thin type. I’m curvaceous and in high school, that wasn’t exactly the accepted norm or societal standard of beauty. So – of course- I was seriously self concious. I’ve gotten better, but there you are.

I didn’t even get a boyfriend until college. I believe I was 21 or so at the time. My first kiss came from that guy. But he wasn’t my one partner. He was a very nice guy – but no. No sex with him. Uh-uh. No way. (He was very skinny and not very strong. I would have broken him. (; )

Then I met someone online and we met and then we became an item. It’s in my bylaws to meet before becoming an item. He was my first – and my only. He was very sweet and gentle the first time and I enjoyed it.

As for after that? No idea, Dream, my friend. No clue. I need to date more, I think. Hrmmm.

Any takers?