On the advice of the beautiful and wonderful Betty, here is the Vox Question of the Day! (Of course, cross-posted to my Vox account. (; )
What are your deal breakers in a relationship?
- Infidelity. Period. You cheat, I’m done. SEE ya.
- An inability to communicate. I had this in my last relationship, which meant I didn’t know there were unfixable problems until he said “I’m done with this relationship. Bye.” That’s a problem.
I think those are the only ones which are the BIG ones. I haven’t had a lot of experience, so – I can’t really say if there are small ones which would pile up or anything. I am, as they say, pretty much still a relationship virgin. I’ve only ever had two. Yes. Two. Two fingers two. What are you gonna do?
However, I do know what is annoying in a guy you are just starting to see…
Date One: Fun, seems okay. He goes “I’ll call you later this week.”
One Month later: “Oh, hey, wasn’t he going to call?”
And yes. In that month, I have made attempts via email or phone.
I’ve had five first dates like that since September.
It’s starting to give me a complex…..